<![CDATA[Give it to God - Pro BBQ - Blog]]>Fri, 21 Apr 2017 07:02:20 -0700Weebly<![CDATA[Be Jesus]]>Fri, 07 Apr 2017 14:23:23 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/be-jesus
Be Jesus!
Starting to crank up on the Pro BBQ tour.  Contests are all over the country and the World, for that matter.  So, by the thousands, us PitMasters are planning our week around getting out there and cooking with our brothers and sisters hoping for the last “walk” of the day.
Most of us won’t get that “walk” and will go home wondering just what happened.  We will go over every detail of our cook from the meat we selected, how we trimmed it, our rub plan, timing, amount, sauce strategy, cook plan, wood plan…everything is diagnosed for ways to get better.
It seems like that conversation in our heads dominates our thoughts for at least 24 hours.  But then, our minds shift to the people we were blessed to spend time with.  The conversations we had, the laughs we shared, the tears we cried together.  This great sport of Pro BBQ is exploding in popularity, not because of the money, not because of the “celebrity”…. But because of the relationships we develop each and every week.
Most of my dearest friends come directly from the BBQ world.  There is just something special about the spirit of hospitality that engulfs PitMasters.  Our desire is to take care of people, to make sure they are comfortable, fill their bellies with some goodness, no matter who they are.  And this posture is on display in a very public way when OBR (Operation BBQ Relief) deploys to help others in their time of need.
When I reflect on this aspect of our family, it emphasizes our need to “Be Jesus” every day to those around us.  Our bible is the most magnificent book ever written and it applies as well today as it did when written thousands of years ago, and will continue forever.
Jesus is the epitome of Love.  His example on how to treat people defines decency in our human existence.  My prayer, every day, is to reflect the love of Jesus in how I interact with everyone that crosses my path.  It’s the Love of Jesus that was shown to me by a dear friend in 2004 that changed my life.  It wasn’t done in a way that we would call “nice”, but that is what I needed and the message got through.
We all have thousands and thousands of decisions we make every day.  You reading this article to this spot was a decision to continue and see if I make any sense…lol.. Today is a great day for you to put your decision making on “pause” and test it against the example of Jesus.
3 Don't be selfish; don't try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. 4 Don't look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. 5 You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. [Phl 2:3-5 NLT]
As for me, it’s very simple… I tried a lot of things in my life to be happy and content…nothing worked until…I tried Jesus.  He works for me and I highly recommend Him.  If you haven’t given your life to Jesus…Today would be a great day to do so.  What are you waiting for?

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<![CDATA[12 Years...]]>Fri, 03 Mar 2017 13:19:47 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/12-yearsPicture
12 years….
There are times in this life when everything stops and God’s glory is revealed to us in ways that are simply….miraculous.  This is a story of defeat, dis-honor, disappointment, redemption, forgiveness and victory.

Sitting in a friend’s office thirteen years ago, my eyes were opened to the reality of my complete and utter failure as a human being.  The outside world didn’t see it that way, in fact, I was quite successful in the business world, had lots of money, property, stuff… but on the inside, at the core of what I followed and believed and worshiped, was myself.  My happiness, my pleasure and my desires was all that mattered.  My friend uttered these words that seared into my heart… “Jeff, you are going to hell…there’s no question about that, but the question is….how many people that you care about, that you love, will have their lives trashed by you?”

Like a ton of bricks, it hit me between the eyes and there was no running from it.  I was one of the most effective salesmen you could imagine and I had no response.  He was right.  We prayed and I gave my life to Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior.  I was born-again, a child of God and have not looked back.
Unfortunately, those lives that I trashed, the ones that meant so much to me couldn’t help but carry the deep scars of my doing.  Both of my daughters bore the brunt of it.  Brooke and I came back together shortly before her untimely death, but Paige and I remained apart, very far apart.

Paige, rightfully dis-owned me and wanted nothing to do with me, no contact what-so-ever.  Years went by and her stance didn’t soften.  Each and every day, I prayed for God to help our relationship heal and restore us.  Nine years went by without contact. Having begun my Pro BBQ career and traveling around the country sharing Jesus, and the Thank You Fairy, God put on my heart to make a trip out to California.  It was a risk, but I wanted to make the trip to apologize to Paige.  I sent off an email, and she agreed to meet with me. 

My sole purpose on the morning we met was to apologize to Paige for not being the Dad she deserved to have.  To apologize for the pain I had caused.  No excuses, no explanations, just an apology.  THAT is what Paige needed to hear and she forgave me.  She didn’t just jump right in and trust what I was saying to be real, but her heart was wide open to giving me a shot.

Following our re-connection, we stayed in touch, visited a couple times and just worked on getting to know each other as adults.  I always sensed a bit of awkwardness when Paige attempted to address me because she didn’t know what to call me… and Dad wasn’t on the radar screen….yet.  God continued to heal her heart and as the years have gone by, Paige grew to realize that Jeff is not the man he used to be, but he really has changed.  This past February, I received the most treasured expression of love, a birthday card and note from Paige:

Dad –
I just wanted to write you a note to say how truly grateful I am to have you back in my life.  I value you and our relationship.  You enrich my life so thank you for that.  Life is crazy and at the end of the day, we are all just people doing the best we can.  Sometimes it’s hard as a daughter to see your parents as “actual people” with struggles of their own.  You had your own demos to battle in your life and I understand that more & more as I get older.  I love you and I truly forgive you.  Thank you for being authentically you.  You are an amazing human being with a kind heart. – Paige.

As I cry again, writing this…. I share it with you to know that God will honor your prayers in His perfect timing.  You know exactly what is worth holding onto in your life and sometimes it’s a struggle to understand how things get to where they are… but God sees it all as well.  He cares for all of us and will make a way for you to do the things you need to do, to get on the path that is Victory in your life.  Relationships matter.  Saying Thank You and I’m Sorry are the most powerful relationship tools we have.  There’s no allotment on how many times you can use them. 
Give your whole heart to God… He’s the answer you need, the provider of your dreams, the healer of your heart.  What are you waiting for?


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<![CDATA[God will Answer...in His Timing]]>Sat, 04 Feb 2017 10:08:29 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/god-will-answerin-his-timingGive it to God – Jeff Petkevicius
February 2017
This morning, I was organizing all of the columns I’ve written and wow… God has blessed me with this out-reach since 2013!  As I was going through and filing the articles, I came across one I started a couple years ago, but didn’t turn into a column.  After reading it, God’s timing is perfect… I just gotta share it with ya’ll.
OUR GOD is faithful to the faithful!  Confession time... Got back from Bedford TX, Pro BBQ competition #111 for me..(I’m now at #146, so this was a couple years back).  I love being involved with Pro BBQ and Love telling people about Jesus...however, I was wondering if God wanted me to stay here doing this work or moving along to another ministry.  Cook's Church is running along all over the country with brothers taking up the torch for Jesus and God gets all the glory for that.... so I'm thinking, the seeds are planted, the work is moving along, God is a part of Pro BBQ where it was NOT 5 years ago, so, IS my work here done...  Caroline and I were taking our morning walk yesterday and I was sharing this thought.  Keep in mind, that no matter what God wants me doing...I'm ALL IN.  If that means Prison ministry, Homeless, 3rd world etc... Where He needs me, I will serve HIM.... and then this morning I get this message:
Hi Jeff,
I cooked my first KCBS competition this weekend in Bedford.  What a blast!  I feel a little bit weird just sending you an email out of the blue, but I feel like I need to share some things with you.
When I made the decision to cook the competition I started doing some searches on YouTube on rookie bbq contest etc. and I came across your Rookie Reality series.  I watched the first video and was hooked.  I pretty much watched them all in one day while I was smoking a pork shoulder.  I just thought, how cool is this!  He's taking two of the things I love most Jesus and BBQ and making a ministry out of this.
After I watched those videos, I also watched your series on getting started in competitive BBQ, and then I started some of your more recent videos.  I just want you to know how much your videos and ministry has meant to me personally over the past couple months and encourage you to keep fighting the good fight.  I got a lot of good information on how to start my team, but more importantly I was able to see your heart for the Lord.
Your honesty is at times brutal and your message is challenging for the average Christian.  There is conviction that comes to me that I'm not doing enough to make the Lord known to others.  Yet there is always compassion and authentic realness and oftentimes humor in your message.  We have the best news available and it can't be hidden under a bushel!  Thank you so much for sharing the good news and thank you for challenging fellow Christians to share the good news as well.  In the end, I know all the glory goes to God, but I just wanted to thank you for things that you have unknowingly imparted into my life since I discovered your ministry.
As Hebrews 3:13 says: But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called “Today,” so that none of you will be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.
My only regret is not sticking around after church to tell you this in person.  God willing, perhaps someday our paths will cross again.
God bless you and keep you,
I guess I got my answer....What an amazing God we serve.  to the Faithful, HE is faithful... God has a plan for you that you can't imagine until you allow Him to mold you into the servant He needs with your life... Words can't describe how powerful and peaceful that becomes when you give God your whole heart   What are you waiting for? :)
1 And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice--the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. 2 Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. 3 Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don't think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us. 4 Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, 5 so it is with Christ's body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other. 6 In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. 7 If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. 8 If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly. 9 Don't just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. 11 Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically. 12 Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. 13 When God's people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality. [Rom 12:1-13 NLT]
 

 
 
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<![CDATA[Forgiveness]]>Sat, 07 Jan 2017 10:19:14 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/forgivenessPicture
​As a human being, one of the toughest things to do is FORGIVE.  God has wired us as emotional beings for good and for bad.  This wiring allows us to get along with people, fall in love, share good times, and comfort each other in bad times.  It is also the mechanism that drives hatred and destruction, murder, abuse, bigotry, racism etc… When you think about it, I mean really think about it, the difference between the two scenarios above is FORGIVENESS. 
So why is it so difficult, why is it so much easier to hold onto a hurt, and allow that hurt to solidify in our hearts and harbor negativity towards another person?  I don’t have the answer, but I do know that God paid the ultimate price through Jesus dying on the cross for us as the ultimate act of Forgiveness!  His Word is perfectly clear that Forgiveness is not an option, but a – hard and fast – requirement to be a part of God’s Kingdom.  Over the years, I have struggled with this requirement from God, and in His mercy, He continues to help me grow.  Recently, when I needed to engage Forgiveness, it was brutally hard for me to do, and as I was praying for help, God gave me this….
Forgiveness can end...or.... restore a Relationship. Restoration comes by way of acknowledgement, apology and repentance.
When we are wronged, we are called to forgive and keep forgiving.... but it also means that the relationship changes and sometimes that means it ends. God gives us the example of applied forgiveness with how He treats all of us.... Without Repentance, what we thought we had (relationship) is not there, so it is dead and a new relationship is birthed. The new one will have a different look and feel to it.... However, if somebody comes to us with clear and complete acknowledgement, makes a - no excuse apology - and turns from their ways, demonstrating repentance.....then, you have restoration.
12 and forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us. 13 And don't let us yield to temptation, but rescue us from the evil one. 14 "If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. 15 But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. [Mat 6:12-15 NLT]
21 Then Peter came to him and asked, "Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?" 22 "No, not seven times," Jesus replied, "but seventy times seven! [Mat 18:21-22 NLT]
9 But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. [1Jo 1:9 NLT]
 
 
We are a fallen people and God's forgiveness is always there. When we acknowledge our sins, confess them and turn from our wicked ways, we have a born-again relationship with Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. Thank you Jesus for this light of revelation for me and I hope it helps somebody else out there..  Give your whole heart to God.... what are you waiting for?
 

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<![CDATA[5 Minutes]]>Wed, 07 Dec 2016 09:52:44 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/5-minutesPicture
​Not all things are good…. However…
And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. [Rom 8:28 NLT]
 
Recently, I had the honor of serving with Operation BBQ Relief and their deployment to Gatlinburg, TN.  The wild-fires devastated the community leaving thousands without anything…. Here’s one story…
 
It was about day 3, early in the morning and very chilly.  We had turbo heaters roaring to keep the cook site warm and people were all gathered around, huddled up to try and remove the chill.  I was walking around, checking on pits and noticed a family standing there, mom, dad and 3 daughters.  They looked like the hundreds of volunteers we worked with, waiting for the food line to get set up for serving, so I initiated a conversation…. Being the “funny” guy that I am… I noticed that mom (Sharon) was wearing flip-flops, so I make the joke…”hey mom, it’s probably not good parenting and decision making to be wearing flip-flops in weather like this… just saying”.  She, very politely responds, “Our house burned to the ground, we lost everything and had to leave with what we had on and this is what I was wearing”.
 
I immediately felt an inch tall and apologized profusely.  Sharon and Terry were so nice and didn’t take offense, quite the opposite.  They joked about their situation as well, using humor to navigate them through their personal disaster.  Their story, was like so many… They were just about to go to bed with no fires around them only to see smoke trickling down the hall.  A neighbor pounds on the door screaming that they have to leave…NOW!!! They had 5 minutes to grab the car keys and get out.  When they went outside, the fire was all around them.  It had instantly jumped to their location being driven by 80 mph winds.  Had they gone to bed, they never would have made it out alive.
 
As we stood around the heater, they shared that they have lost everything, however, what is most important is OK.  They have each other and the children and all of the, “things” can be replaced.  Terry was joking that he was actually thankful that he didn’t have to move all his tools again, and the lawnmower that was melted, was for sale with the note, “ran good the last time I used it”…lol.
 
We shared life with each other and became friends on the spot.  I worked to encourage them even though they didn’t seem to need it, and were more encouraging to others.  That outward focus, that desire to get away from their situation and help others, reflects the true love of Jesus Christ and I was so blessed to have God cross our paths.
 
It didn’t take long, and somebody found Sharon some shoes and socks to put on and stay warm.  The recover process will be long and slow, but Jesus loves those who look outside themselves in the toughest of times and will be there with them every step along the way.  Operation BBQ Relief is an amazing organization dedicated to being there in the worst of times in people’s lives to give them Hope for a brighter tomorrow.
 

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<![CDATA[Bullying in Pro BBQ must END!]]>Wed, 16 Nov 2016 23:20:48 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/bullying-in-pro-bbq-must-end
​We’ve been hiding this issue for far too long in the professional BBQ Family. The Bullying in BBQ has to end. Many of us grew up in a time when there was nothing but shame when admitting that we were a victim of bullying, so it was left alone....only to weave into our adult lives, destroying self confidence, ruining marriages and careers and making us piti-ful people on so many levels...
And now, as Professional BBQ athletes, we find ourselves dealing with ritualistic bullying at each and every contest. The sport has evolved into a “clicke” of winners and the rest of us are losers, week in, and week out.... Some of us percolate to the winner circle now and again, but it’s mostly for that select group who wind up in all the fancy contests with great names and awesome goodie bags, while we are at home scraping grates and getting the grease out of our barrels.
I’m not suggesting the winners are the perpetrators of bullying in Pro BBQ, not by far. It’s the JUDGES! The Judges who routinely feel that they are bettering themselves when the give a “7” and then another “7” and then a “6” which makes them feel all powerful and mighty.... They just write those horrifying numbers down and turn in their score sheets, Knowing that the hopes and dreams of the cook have just been CRUSHED. And they don’t care.... You know How I know this....they never stick around for awards!! Yeah, they are gone, pecan, headed home laughing all the way at the joy of their misery perpetration on those fat PitMasters who deserve it.
And why do the Judges bully? It’s a reflection of their incompetence to cook anything worth eating themselves. They are reminded with each and every bite, that they are terrible cooks and the men, recognize that they really should turn in their Man-Cards after sampling what real Men cook. So they lash out, 7,7,7,6,6,6 “I’ll never give you a 9”.....
So the answer for us now is to establish a sense of compassion for us victims of this bullying. We need “SAFE” zones set up after competitions very close to where the score packets are handed out. A place where we can go and not be intimidated with those that won. We need to have counselors on hand to help with the grieving process that attacks each and every one of us, after studying the score packet. Therapy dogs would also play a positive role for us to have someone to show us unconditional Love at a time when it’s desperately needed.
The horrible reality of Bullying in Pro BBQ has been thrown into the OPEN for all to see. Let’s get over this together, as One Family, helping each other and signing joyful melodies in the face of 15th-89th place. Where there’s compassion, there is HOPE. Pro BBQ deserves to move forward!
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<![CDATA[I'm not cooking the Sam's final or the Jack....]]>Sat, 01 Oct 2016 09:40:44 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/im-not-cooking-the-sams-final-or-the-jack
There are a couple of weekends a year that rip the hearts out of cooks on the Pro BBQ Circuit. We are a family of people who come to know each other by traveling around the country and meeting up in obscure locations to camp for a weekend and cook our hearts out, hoping for "the calls" and ultimately the "GC". It's a sport where we are in competition with ourselves more than anything else, working to perfect the art of BBQ, meat on heat and all of the decisions to get to that "perfect" product to be judged.

At the end of the day, the cruel world of Pro BBQ doesn't give out a trophy for participation, NOPE, in our world there are winners and losers..... for that day. In some cases, Winners advance to very select competitions including the Sam's Finals and the Jack Daniels Invitational. On those weekends, our facebook feeds are flooded with the joy of being there, all of the activities and good times ahead of the competition. It's a post, by post, by post, reminder that we're not there :) And...it SUCKS...

At the same time, because we are a close family, we have friends who ARE there, who are enjoying the experience of VIP BBQ Pros and the accolades for their accomplishments. We're proud of what they have done and accomplished like we would be for any other family achievement. We wish them all the best and hope for great results in the end.

So, for many of us, we sit at home, reading about our friends and lamenting that decision to pull our chicken 10 minutes early, going with a sauce we shouldn't have, taking butter out of that one step in the process, meat up as opposed to meat down, changing the rub protocol, not buying the meat we should have, selling that pit that we won on before, changing from low and slow to hot and fast....etc...etc... :)

So, for all my friends out there that are cooking in these great contests, CONGRATULATIONS! You know I LOVE you and you know I'd also love to be there with YOU! Have a great day and when you give your whole heart to Jesus, where you finish in BBQ doesn't matter, but where you finish in life does. Give it to God!

Then I heard the Lord asking, "Whom should I send as a messenger to this people? Who will go for us?" I said, "Here I am. Send me." [Isa 6:8 NLT] 

God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted. God blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earth. God blesses those who hunger and thirst for justice, for they will be satisfied. God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy. God blesses those whose hearts are pure, for they will see God. [Mat 5:4-8 NLT] 
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<![CDATA[Operation BBQ Relief - Hammond, LA Deployment]]>Mon, 05 Sep 2016 16:58:46 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/operation-bbq-relief-hammond-la-deployment
​October 2016
 
If you have followed my writings, you will know that I am often humbled and honored to be a part of the Pro BBQ World…our family.  Never more so, than now, after participating in the Operation BBQ Relief effort in Hammond Louisiana following the devastating floods this past August.  What was anticipated to be a moderate deployment of 5-7 days serving an estimated 70,000 meals, blossomed into a 15 day, 313,000 meal heroic relief effort.
 
The thing about this flood was that it was never dramatic.  There were no vicious winds or thundering clouds…it just rained, and rained and rained.  Eventually the lands ability to absorb and run off the water was eclipsed and hundreds of thousands of people lost their homes, businesses devastated and entire families without a place to go for days without food, water, or contact with others.  Katrina was bad, this was horrendous.
 
For the BBQ family, in steps Operation BBQ Relief, the organization started by Stan Hays and Will Cleaver 5 years ago in response to the Joplin MO Tornado disaster. Early on, My wife Caroline and I knew this was going to be much worse than was being reported.  It took 1 Facebook message to Stan, that we were going to need help down here and the wheels started turning.
 
I was quickly hooked up with Bryan Ropollo, the Louisiana lead and with the help of Scott Jones – Liberty BBQ, we secured the Oak Tree Church and School as a location to set up camp. By Sunday afternoon on the 14th of August, Deployment had begun.  Mike Whitlow from Papas Smoke Pit, and Tangipahoa School Board member jumped in and began harnessing local contacts for getting the operation running with bread, vegetables, meat and volunteers to get the cooking started.
 
Along the way, teams from all over the country started showing up to help, Barry Smith – Bayou Boogie, Mike Richter – Chic Swine and Bovine, Adam Goutrea – Cajun Blaze – Bubba Latimer – Bubba Q – Kenny Nadeau – Unkle Kenny’s BBQ -David Clark – BBQ Grillbillies – Brad Orson and family from the Shed, Johnathan Huddleston, Damon Blue….and the list goes on and on… including John Wheeler and his crew from Natural Born Grillers bringing down their trailer with 3 huge Ole Hickories for some monster volume cooking capacity.
 
The volunteer crew, their work ethic and willingness to take on any job was inspiring.  Once we got all the wheels in motion we quickly hit the 25,000 meals a day mark and several time eclipsing 30,000.  During the deployment OBR eclipsed the 1 Million Meals Served mark, a stunning accomplishment for such a young, completely volunteer organization…. Wow.
 
I share all of this to just reflect on the accomplishment of all the men and women involved in OBR’s Hammond Deployment from the Board of Directors down to the student volunteers cleaning up the continuous messes we made.
 
For me, from my perspective, I had an on-field, sideline pass to watch God work miracle after miracle.  Cooking 200 pork butts from 127* and a stone cold pit, to DONE is 1.5 hours to make a way for us to push out 8,000 meals by 9 AM…. To the amazing bonds and friendships forged by the exhausting work 12-16 hours per day and the desire to return day after day…. And story after story of the appreciation that a hot meal made to the lives of people and their families in such a tragic time.
 
My prayer is that we never have to see Operation BBQ relief again in this part of the country.  With the reality of weather in our area, that’s not likely, and so I have comfort in knowing that wherever disaster strikes, Our Amazing BBQ family will show up to help soften the blow of disasters and send out hugs through hot meals, one person at a time.
 
I love my BBQ family and I am honored to have served in this way.  God bless all of you.
 
God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted. God blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earth. God blesses those who hunger and thirst for justice, for they will be satisfied. God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy. God blesses those whose hearts are pure, for they will see God. [Mat 5:4-8 NLT]
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<![CDATA[God's investment in YOU!]]>Tue, 09 Aug 2016 09:19:17 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/gods-investment-in-you
​Then he said, "Beware! Guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own." [Luk 12:15 NLT] 
 
Sometimes I read the bible and just sit back amazed!  What God has for us is so contrary to what the world will tell us and try to drill into our lives.  Every day we are saturated with messages that tell us we need more, gotta have more, gotta have better, bigger, newer….. there is no escaping the trap.
 
Then God reminds us in so many ways that “wealth” is not determined by how much we have, but by how “little” we need…  By that definition, I have met many worldly “wealthy” people who are “poor” by this definition and many “poor” who have true “wealth”.
 
Here in our world of BBQ there are no rich and poor, there are just brothers and sisters cooking away, trying to hear their name called at the end of the day.  When we turn in our efforts, they go into a box that is un-identifiable by design.  The contests are organized with great pains to insure that there is now way to identify who’s entry it is.  The judges are presented with entries and judge them on their merit, not who they came from.  It’s as fair a process that can be established.  Cooks will argue judging and results, tables of death etc…it’s just what we do, but in the end, Great BBQ wins.
 
God is the same way, when we turn in our lives to be judged, God doesn’t care what we look like, where we’ve been, how much we acquired, how big our house is, etc..  God cares about what we did with what He gave us…. And He expects a return on His investment…
 
Before he left, he called together ten of his servants and divided among them ten pounds of silver, saying, 'Invest this for me while I am gone.' But his people hated him and sent a delegation after him to say, 'We do not want him to be our king.' "After he was crowned king, he returned and called in the servants to whom he had given the money. He wanted to find out what their profits were. The first servant reported, 'Master, I invested your money and made ten times the original amount!' "'Well done!' the king exclaimed. 'You are a good servant. You have been faithful with the little I entrusted to you, so you will be governor of ten cities as your reward.' "The next servant reported, 'Master, I invested your money and made five times the original amount.' "'Well done!' the king said. 'You will be governor over five cities.' "But the third servant brought back only the original amount of money and said, 'Master, I hid your money and kept it safe. I was afraid because you are a hard man to deal with, taking what isn't yours and harvesting crops you didn't plant.' "'You wicked servant!' the king roared. 'Your own words condemn you. If you knew that I'm a hard man who takes what isn't mine and harvests crops I didn't plant, why didn't you deposit my money in the bank? At least I could have gotten some interest on it.' "Then, turning to the others standing nearby, the king ordered, 'Take the money from this servant, and give it to the one who has ten pounds.' "'But, master,' they said, 'he already has ten pounds!' "'Yes,' the king replied, 'and to those who use well what they are given, even more will be given. But from those who do nothing, even what little they have will be taken away. And as for these enemies of mine who didn't want me to be their king--bring them in and execute them right here in front of me.'" [Luk 19:13-27 NLT]
 
God has blessed all of us with gifts that He considers an investment.  Are you giving God a return on His investment?  He want’s your whole heart, Give it to God, what are you waiting for?
 
 
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<![CDATA[What's your name?... never mind]]>Wed, 06 Jul 2016 09:09:09 GMThttp://giveittogodbbq.com/blog/whats-your-name-never-mind
​Just had to share....this past weekend, I was cooking a contest. It was a BCA contest which has 3 meats, Ribs, Chicken and Brisket with 1.5 hours between turn ins.... It was getting close to chicken time, and I wrapped my ribs. Now, here’s a secret for ya... I cook some chicken thighs above the ribs so that they drip and baste them while they are unwrapped... So I have these amazing chicken thighs. I typically de-bone them and take the meat home for chicken salad or chicken jambalaya. Anyways, I have this piping hot, moist and delicious thigh meat sitting in the pan and head out of the trailer to check on something. I notice a young woman taking pictures of the event and she comments... “man, it smells amazing out here”... and I respond, “hey, come over here and I’ll give you a taste of this great chicken”... so she comes over and I give her a piece. She melts. She is telling me how amazing and wonderful it is. She goes on to tell me that she is the Executive Director for the charity that the cook-off is benefiting. So I tell her to take the whole pan. Took some convincing, but she agreed because she didn’t want to take it all. Having her attention, the Holy Spirit moves me to tell her the “Thank YOU Fairy” story of Brooke. When I get done, and hand her the card, she begins to cry... a good cry. She tells me that she has been crying out to God to help her know, that what she is doing is what He wants her doing.... and our little visit WAS her answer. She then says the most amazing thing.... she asks... What was your name? and before I could say a word, she says..... “never mind...I heard God through YOU!” I was..... blown away... Never mind.... I heard God through YOU! and I just kept pondering those words..... On face value, you could take offense, but that NEVER entered my mind... it was like she was saying, who you are is not remotely as important and what you just did.... what you just did is deliver a word to me, to my heart, to my soul from God and it’s not important who you are in this world...what people call you... YOU spoke for GOD to ME! Wow, Wow and WOW...... now that part brought ME to tears. To think that God would use me, and show me, how He would use me in this way is Humbling to the core.
On Sundays, I usually have to go through a depression time of getting over not having the “contest” results that I would prefer. This Sunday was no different, other than the fact that I had this story to reflect on. Today was Father’s day. I pray at each contest that God, my Father, would be proud of what I did for Him at the contest. And today, He made it, so perfectly clear, that He WAS. This doesn’t happen by accident and by chance. God responds to complete surrender to His will for your life. It’s hard to do at times, and it’s Faith that carries us through lots of moments of wondering what the heck is going on.... But God... but God is faithful to the end and will illuminate His love for us at the exact Moment He needs us to have it.
I pray that YOU find the peace of God in your lives and it begins with surrendering your whole heart to Jesus Christ as YOUR Lord and Savior. Give it to God.... what are you waiting for? I love YOU
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